This post contains details from the finale ofThe Bachelorette.
Something that has simply never happened on this show happens tonight?
Heres a spoiler for you.
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Well, buckle up, because its a three-hour finale, and theres a lot of ground to cover.
Marcus is still holding out.
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First, theyll be meeting Devin.
Jenn says theyve bonded over their untraditional families and the person theyve become as a result.
Jenns mom says in a confessional that she thinks they need more time to understand each other.
He reminds her that there is another man, Marcus, who is vying for her heart.
Speaking with Devin, Jenns brother asks how he feels about potentially being engaged in the next week.
But, she ultimately did tell him that she loved him.
So, TBD on that.
This makes Devin a bit insecure, but he takes it in stride.
Next up, the family is meeting Marcus.
Theyre a bit worried, because Marcus hasnt said he loves Jenn yet.
He also tells them about his near-death experience in the military.
He pulls Marcus aside to get more clarity.
He also admits that he doesnt think hes ready for engagement, which worries her mom.
She says he could be giving more, but she understands his traumas have made that difficult.
She says shes worried, but she thinks hes more genuine than that, and she trusts him.
He asks how long Jenn is willing to wait, for which she doesnt quite have an answer.
After all, they are set to potentially get engaged next week.
He says hes not certain about the proposal, but its not about her.
Its about the pressure to be what he needs to be for her.
But, he wants to continue trying.
Jenn leaves the conversation confused and disappointed.
Much to think about.
Before Jenn accepts an engagement, its time for her final dates with Devin and Marcus.
First up is, once again, Devin!
Jenn is worried that this pressure might prompt Devin to start overthinking and self-sabotage what theyve got going on.
Devins goal is just to feel more secure.
Devins fear is his own self-sabotage, and Jenns is a fear of abandonment.
They decide that theyre going to lean on each other through those fears rather than weathering them alone.
The dinner portion of the date goes relatively well.
The next morning, Jenn wakes up saying shes frustrated and confused about where she stands with Marcus.
Her date with Devin went well, and she knows exactly where they stand.
He gives a bit of a non-answer, but he keeps saying hes very torn about the whole situation.
She goes into their final date ready to ask the difficult questions that she needs answered.
Jenn says she doesnt know how to proceed knowing Marcus may never get there with her.
He doesnt want to give up on them, and he wants to see things through.
Jenn steps away after his admission, reeling from the way things went down.
She says that, while she had so much hope for them, shes done.
She sends him home without going on their final date.
Back in the studio, Marcus is watching the breakup unfold all over again.
He tells Jesse it was tough to watch, because there was a lot of feelings involved.
When Jenn and Marcus come face-to-face on stage, things seem fairly amicable.
She admits by the time they had that final conversation, she already knew where things were headed.
Marcus says he believes everything happened the way it was supposed to.
Back in Hawaii, its time for an engagement.
But, just because she sent Marcus home, doesnt mean Devin is a shoe-in.
She says she still isnt quite sure if shell accept his proposal.
Instead, she wants to propose to Devin.
Jenn joins Jesse back on stage in an incredibly emotional state.
She says she felt secondary to everything in his life at that point, and she didnt understand why.
She offered to call off the engagement but continue to date, but he didnt want to accept that.
The two of them hadnt seen each other since before the breakup until now.
When Devin joins Jenn on stage, Jesse opens the floor for them to have a conversation.
Devin says he cant excuse the Instagram follow, and he knows how much it hurt her.
He insists that everything he felt was real, but she doesnt buy it.
Jesse opens the floor for Devin to say anything else he needs to get off his chest.
Finally, with the proper context in mind, its time for audiences to see Jenn and Devins engagement.
