The world is very much diminished without Tony, Attanasio said of the Illinois native.

He was really a beautiful soul.

He was ambitious, enough to get here from the Midwest and succeed in a jostling business.

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He used to call me beachfront property.

He thought I was the greatest writer since Homer.

I didnt want to let him down.

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He was steady in a way that, in those days, certainly, I was not.

He used to sign off every call by saying, Hang in there.

It was like a catchphrase fromHill Street Blues.It was tough out there.

We would get through it together.The only thing that wasnt Midwestern about Tony was how he dressed.

He was a sharp dresser.

When you do it right, its about love: all giving and no taking.

Tony understood me in a way I couldnt (and still cant) understand myself.

That was the secret ingredient in whatever I was able to accomplish in television.

But he knew I was right.